We Are Brothers, We Are Sisters..

Bismillah..

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh..

Alhamdulillah..All praises to Allah. The Prophet SAW said that your today must be better than yesterday, or else you have deteriorated. This hadeeth teaches us to critically review the past and plan for the future. (This is opinion made by my head of department, based on what she wrote on the Tesl magazine). Indeed, we have to improve ourselves day by day.

Yesterday, my class is practising for the society’s anthem. Well, I do really like to sing, but not in front of people whom I don’t want to sang to. Huk2..it was pretty obvious that I don’t like to sing it aloud. One of my friend felt very stress because of this until he said

“tolonglah nyanyi, ni bukan maksiat, tau tak?”

What der..

I don’t want to comment further about what he said, as he had said to me once upon a time, that he came from the religious school, and his school is not like others. Huk2.. Anyway, we won, right?

Hmm.. next chapter.

Before I move on, I would like to give you this.

I am not put the women whom touch or being touched by non mahram (except their husband) with the same level with the pig. Pig is also His Creation. The pig itself doesn’t want or beg to be like that. We as a Muslim, to touch the pig are not a sin. We are strictly prohibited to eat it except dharurah is happen. If we touched them, we just have to samak the part of our body. But, as what His Messenger SAW said, it is better our hand being beat by hot weapon rather than touch non mahram women. Do you get what I mean?

I don’t know what is in your mind when you touch or being touched by a girl even though she is non Muslim. Maybe this is a stupid question but I do really want to know, do you think that they are a boy just like you, maybe because we as a Muslimah have to cover all parts of our body except face and the wrist in front of non Muslim just like what we did in front of man(non mahram except the husband) ??

As a Muslim, I do have a responsibility to tell you this although you know about it but, well, al ilmu bila a’mal kassyajari bila tsamar. I am very, very, very sure that you know the rule. Once we break the rule, there must be something happen with our iman or faith. Knowledge without practising it just likes a tree without fruits. It is all up to you. Indeed, the way to jannah is full of obstacles. Only you can decide what you want. This temporary (fana’) world or the immortal (baqa’) akhirat.

In the Tafsir al Quran slot by Ustaz Zahazan Mohamad, when he discussed about tafsir Surah atTaubah, he said about the difference between ahabba and istahabba. Ahhabba means we love somebody or something without any pressure from inside. In other word, ‘fitrah’ of human being that had created by Allah. Compared to istahabba, Istahabba means love sb or sth with presence of pressure inside our heart, means something wrong somewhere. Love money, love wives, love sons and daughter more than love to Allah and His Messenger, it is something against fitrah.

A sahabat asked Rasululullah, when will yaumul qiamah happen? Rasululullah replied, do you have preparation to face it? The sahabat said, I don’t have anything but love to you, o Rasulullah. Rasulullah replied, someone will be at the same place at akhirat with the one whom he/she loved.

Rasulullah SAW will be in Jannah, for sure. so, the sahabat will also be there, with Rasulullah. but, some of us are different. we say that we love Rasulullah SAW but we are not practicing his sunnah. plus, make it laugh. are we really due to be in jannah with Rasulullah. 

subhanallah..let's repent. we are done too much sins. everyday we done sins. but, you know what. Allah will forgive us. no matter what category of sinners are we as long as we are not syirik to Him. i have much things to write, but I think you better listen to ikim.fm for Tafsir alQuran slot. there are a lot things to know. every Monday, after Zohor, there will be Kuliah Zohor. insyaAllah, even though we are busy with lecture and study, with this effort to gain the knowledge, He will give us hidayah. we have to seek for hidayah right?  

You love this world, love its contain, love the beauty, love all about the world, please do but make sure that love to akhirat is more than you love this world. I repeat my statement. Only you can decide what you want. This temporary (fana’) world or the immortal (baqa’) akhirat.

p/s: You may not read this, but still, deep in the hearts core, uhibbukum fillah, because I am Muslim and you are my brothers(and sisters).

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Reading this,

reminds me things happened at that time.

And it happens again

so many times.

Make a good relationship with them.

Smile.

And they will shy themselves.

Reminding ourselves,

we are all sinners,

perhaps types of sin might be different.

20.08.13